Author: Asami

  • High Heels Are Not the Enemy

    High Heels Are Not the Enemy

    I want to speak the truth.

    Of course, truth differs from
    person to person, shaped
    by our values and perspectives.

    Perhaps there is no such thing
    as one absolute truth.

    Yet there is one thing
    I can say with certainty.

    High heels are not the enemy.

    They are not inherently
    meant to damage your body.

    Nor are they inherently
    meant to exhaust it.

    Walking in high heels follows
    the structural principles of
    the human body,
    just as architecture follows
    the principles of structural design.

    Do not blame these beautiful
    works of art for what you have
    yet to understand.

    Discover the world beyond
    what you already know.

    That, to me, is truth.

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  • Can High Heels Help Relieve Foot Pain?

    Can High Heels Help Relieve Foot Pain?

    Following my previous article,
    “Can High Heels Help Relieve
    Back Pain?”


    I would like to continue
    exploring another truth about
    walking correctly in high heels.

    One of the main reasons
    many women hesitate to wear
    heels is foot pain.

    Discomfort.

    Bunions.

    And the fear that wearing
    heels will make an existing
    problem worse.

    I understand
    this concern very well.

    Because throughout thousands
    of private high-heel sessions,
    these were also the concerns
    that brought many women to me.

    And this is not a question
    of age, profession
    or where someone lives.

    Many women first discovered
    my work through articles
    I had written about foot problems.

    Some came to their first session
    wondering whether what they
    had read could really be possible.

    Could the condition of
    their feet actually change?

    Then, through their own bodies,
    they began to discover that
    what was happening was not
    a miracle.

    There was a structure behind it.

    Among the foot problems
    I have encountered most
    frequently is the pain
    and discomfort associated
    with hallux valgus.

    Many women love high heels.

    They would like to wear them.

    Yet pain has led them
    to give them up completely
    or reserve them only
    for special occasions.

    But just as I discussed
    in my previous article on
    back pain, pain and discomfort
    can also be important information
    from the body.

    How are you using your body?

    How are you standing?

    How are you walking?

    Where is your weight going?

    Rather than seeing pain
    only as an enemy,

    I believe it is important
    to bring our awareness back
    to the body itself.

    Because sometimes,
    the beginning of the answer
    is already there.

    I have long seen the human
    body in much the same way
    I see architecture.

    It is a structure.

    This is one of the foundations
    of the ASAMI-PARIS Method.

    A very slight arching
    of the lower back.

    A subtle rotation
    of the upper body.

    The position of the head.

    Something that appears
    to be happening far away
    from the feet can influence
    the way weight travels
    through the body.

    And this may contribute
    to discomfort in the feet
    or the lower back.

    Of course, it is impossible
    to understand what is happening
    in an individual body
    without observing that body itself.

    Every person has different
    habits, movement patterns
    and physical tendencies.

    And these are closely
    connected to the way we move
    through everyday life.

    One client who came
    to me was a woman living
    in Malaysia.

    She had lived with severe
    hallux valgus for decades.

    What makes her story
    particularly interesting is
    that she had
    never worn high heels.

    Living in a hot climate,
    she spent most of her life
    wearing sandals.

    And yet,
    she had severe
    hallux valgus.

    Her experience is an important
    reminder that the relationship
    between high heels and
    hallux valgus is not as simple as:

    “High heels cause bunions.”

    When she first began working
    with me, her feet were so sensitive
    that simply putting them into
    heels caused significant pain.

    So we did not begin
    with high heels.

    We began barefoot.

    In the beginning,
    her sessions consisted of
    barefoot exercises.

    She then began working
    with me regularly every week.

    Approximately
    one month later,
    she was able to begin
    exercises wearing heels.

    Why?

    Because through the barefoot
    work, the way her feet were
    functioning had begun to change.

    This was not magic.

    We were simply beginning
    to awaken functions
    the body already possesses.

    With hallux valgus,
    one area I pay particular
    attention to is the muscular
    support around the base
    of the big toe and along the
    inner side of the foot.

    When these structures
    are not participating
    effectively, weight can move
    away from where the body
    needs support.

    The exercises are designed
    to awaken this participation.

    But the exercise itself
    is only part of the work.

    What is the rest of the body doing?

    Is the body correctly positioned?

    Is the weight escaping
    toward the outside of the foot?

    Is another part of the body
    compensating?

    This is where observation
    and precision become essential.

    There is a fundamental structure
    shared by the human body.

    But beyond that foundation,
    every body is different.

    This is why I do not believe
    in simply giving everyone
    the same exercise
    and expecting the same result.

    I observe the individual
    tendencies of each body.

    Its habits.

    Its compensations.

    Its strengths.

    Its weaknesses.

    And from there,
    the work becomes
    increasingly precise.

    For me,
    it resembles sculpture.

    The foundation is already there.

    But little by little,
    we refine what needs to be refined
    while respecting the individuality
    of the body in front of us.

    This work cannot be created
    by the coach alone.

    It is a collaboration
    between the client and myself.

    And at its deepest level,

    it is an art.

    If you experience foot pain
    or discomfort,
    you are not alone.

    And if you have been afraid
    of high heels because of
    hallux valgus or another foot
    problem, I understand that
    hesitation.

    But before concluding
    that high heels themselves
    are the problem,

    it may be worth looking
    more deeply at the body
    that is wearing them.

    How does it stand?

    How does it distribute weight?

    How does it move?

    How do the feet participate
    in the movement of the whole body?

    From the tips of the toes
    to the top of the head,
    the body functions as one unit.

    Every connection matters.

    And sometimes,
    what appears to be a problem
    in one small part of the body
    invites us to look
    at the whole structure.

    For women who would like
    to begin this work without heels,
    the Hallux Valgus Structural
    Recalibration Program
    offers
    another way to explore
    these foundations through
    barefoot structural work.

    The body is not something
    we need to fight against.

    Sometimes,
    we simply need to learn
    how to listen to it differently.


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  • Can High Heels Help Relieve Back Pain?

    Can High Heels Help Relieve Back Pain?

    “I don’t just have back pain.

    I feel as though I’m carrying
    a bomb in my lower back.”

    These were the words
    of one of my former clients.

    Her back pain was so severe
    that even sitting in a chair
    had become difficult.

    She lived in Hawaii,
    and when she decided to come
    to Paris for my private sessions,
    she did not even know whether
    her back would allow her
    to endure the flight.

    That was the condition
    in which she arrived.

    She had only three days
    with me in Paris.

    And yet, on the first day,
    I did not ask her
    to put on high heels.

    We worked barefoot.

    Before the Heels, There Is the Body

    Before teaching someone
    how to walk in high heels,
    I need to understand
    how her body moves.

    Which muscles does she use
    when she walks?

    Which muscles are not working
    as they should?

    Where does she place her body?

    How is her alignment organized?

    Where does she compensate
    without even realizing it?

    With this client,
    we spent the first day
    working intensively
    on these foundations.

    Barefoot exercises.

    Body position.

    Alignment.

    Muscular engagement.

    And an entirely new awareness
    of how to move the body
    when walking.

    This foundation
    matters deeply to me.

    Because without a
    foundation, a correction
    may last for a moment.

    But over time,
    the body can return
    to its old patterns.

    I am not interested in
    creating a temporary
    appearance of improvement.

    I want the body
    to understand.

    The Back Is Not Separate
    from the Rest of the Body

    When someone experiences
    back pain, it is natural
    to focus on the back.

    But through more than
    5,000 private sessions,
    I learned to look beyond
    the place where the pain
    appears.

    From the tips of the toes
    to the top of the head,
    the body functions as
    one unit.

    Every connection matters.

    Nothing is unnecessary.

    With clients suffering from
    back pain, one area I have
    repeatedly found
    important is the musculature
    around the knees.

    At first, the knees
    and the abdominal muscles
    may appear to have little
    to do with one another.

    But the body does not
    function as a collection
    of independent parts.

    Its muscles and movement
    patterns work together.

    When the support around
    the knees is weak,
    I often observe weakness
    further up the body’s
    chain as well, including in the
    way the abdominal
    muscles support the body.

    And when I speak of the
    abdominal muscles,
    I am not talking about building
    visible abs on a fitness machine.

    I am talking about the ability
    to draw the abdominal
    muscles upward and
    use them to support the
    body’s position.

    When this upward support
    is insufficient, the body
    can unconsciously fall
    backward and the lower
    back can become the place
    that compensates.

    This is one of the patterns
    I have observed repeatedly
    in women who come to me
    with back pain.

    That is why strengthening
    the muscles around the knees
    can become an important part
    of the work I do with them.

    Why We Begin Barefoot

    The exercises I used
    with this client
    were not conventional
    fitness exercises.

    They were barefoot
    exercises originally
    developed as a foundation
    for walking in high heels.

    Through them,
    we worked on the muscles
    required for walking,
    the relationship between
    the legs and the core,
    and the awareness necessary
    to maintain the body’s alignment
    without unconsciously
    arching the lower back.

    Only after the body
    had begun to understand
    these foundations
    did we move into high heels.

    Because high heels
    have another role.

    They reveal.

    High Heels Do Not
    Allow the Body to Hide

    For me, walking in high heels
    can function almost
    like a lie detector for the body.

    A weakness becomes visible.

    An unstable point becomes visible.

    An incorrect alignment
    becomes more obvious.

    A compensation that may
    remain almost unnoticed
    when barefoot can reveal
    itself immediately
    once the body is placed
    in high heels.

    This is precisely why
    I do not see high heels
    only as beautiful shoes.

    They are also an extraordinary
    tool for observing the body.

    Once a certain level of
    muscular strength and body
    awareness has developed,
    working in high heels allows
    us to go deeper.

    The heels reveal
    what still needs attention.

    Her Body Became
    Her Own Guide

    By the time this client
    returned to Hawaii,
    something important had
    changed.

    It was not simply
    that her back felt different.

    She had begun to
    understand
    her own body.

    Later, if she noticed
    the first signs of discomfort
    in her lower back,
    she knew where to look.

    For her, it became a signal
    that the strength and awareness
    around her knees
    had begun to weaken again.

    Instead of waiting
    until the pain became severe,
    she could return to the
    foundations she had learned.

    Her body had become
    her own guide.

    And the devastating
    back pain
    she had once lived with
    no longer returned
    in the same way.

    For me, this is one
    of the deepest purposes
    of my work.

    Not simply to teach
    a woman how to look
    beautiful in high heels.

    But to help her
    understand the body with
    which she walks through life.

    Because walking
    is never just about the feet.

    And pain is not always
    understood by looking only
    at the place where it appears.

    Sometimes,
    we need to look
    at the entire structure.

    Would you believe high heels
    can help relieve back pain?

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  • THE ART OF GESTURE — A Limited Private Edition

    THE ART OF GESTURE — A Limited Private Edition

    Elegance reveals itself
    in the smallest gestures.

    The way you remove your coat.
    The way you take off your gloves.

    These movements may seem
    almost insignificant.

    Yet they reveal something essential:

    How your body moves.

    Where does the movement begin?

    Where does it flow?

    Where does it become interrupted?

    THE ART OF GESTURE
    is a private online session
    dedicated to exploring these subtle
    movements through the body itself.

    Not to learn how to look elegant.

    But to refine the movement
    until elegance can emerge naturally.

    What a Gesture Reveals

    We rarely think about
    how we remove a coat
    or take off a pair of gloves.

    The body simply moves.

    And precisely because
    these gestures are so familiar,
    they reveal something
    we rarely notice:

    the invisible structure
    behind movement.

    Beauty is never accidental.

    Behind every refined movement,
    there are principles.

    The beauty of a straight line.

    The beauty of a curve.

    The relationship between
    movement and stillness.

    The space between one gesture
    and the next.

    When these elements
    come into harmony,
    something begins to emerge.

    Presence.

    Elegance.

    Aura.

    A slight change in movement
    can transform the entire impression.

    Even the smallest awareness
    in the fingertips
    can change the presence
    of the whole body.

    This is because beauty
    is not created by chance.

    Behind what we perceive
    as elegance or presence,
    there is always a structure.

    THE ART OF GESTURE
    explores
    these invisible principles
    through the body —

    until they are no longer
    simply understood,
    but embodied.

    What You May Experience
    Through the Session

    Through this session,
    you begin to experience how presence
    can emerge through movement
    and the space between movements.

    A subtle change in a gesture.

    A moment of stillness.

    A slight shift of awareness
    toward the fingertips.

    These almost imperceptible
    differences can transform
    the entire presence of the body.

    You begin to discover
    how elegance and aura
    can arise from within —
    not because they are added or
    performed, but because movement,
    stillness and intention come
    into harmony.

    And when this happens,
    what emerges within
    becomes visible on the outside.

    Presence.

    Elegance.

    Not as something created
    for others to see,
    but as the natural expression
    of the body itself.

    A Private Session via Zoom

    THE ART OF GESTURE
    is conducted privately via Zoom.

    The session is individual,
    allowing us to observe your movement
    and refine it in real time.

    You will need:

    • A coat or jacket
    • A pair of gloves

    No high heels are required
    for this session.

    Private Online Session

    45 minutes — €250

    This Limited Private Edition
    is now closed.

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  • Elegance is Not Born From Control

    Elegance is Not Born From Control

    When learning
    to walk in high heels,
    we often think that all we need
    to do is correct our posture
    or control our movements
    more carefully.

    Yet elegance is not born
    from control.

    In my high-heel sessions,
    I teach the structure of the body
    with precision.

    The placement of the foot.
    The knees.
    The pelvis.
    The abdominal muscles.
    The back.

    At first,
    it is necessary to break
    down the movement
    in order to understand it.

    Where is the body weight placed?

    Which muscles need to be engaged?

    How do the pelvis, the back
    and the legs work together
    within a single movement?

    This understanding is essential.

    But it is not the final goal.

    The aim is not to walk
    while controlling every part
    of the body with every step.

    Because if we constantly
    have to think about our feet,
    our knees, our pelvis
    or our back, the movement
    gradually loses
    its natural fluidity.

    From Understanding
    to Integration

    With practice,
    something begins to change.

    What first needed to be observed,
    understood and corrected
    gradually becomes familiar
    to the body.

    We no longer think about
    each element separately.

    The structure
    has not disappeared.

    It has simply become
    more deeply integrated.

    The body begins to know.

    Like a pianist
    who no longer thinks about
    every musical rule
    as their hands meet the keys,

    the body no longer needs
    to break down every movement
    in order to perform it.

    The knowledge is still there.

    But it no longer exists
    only in thought.

    It has become movement.

    When the body no longer
    needs to monitor itself

    It is here
    that elegance begins
    to appear differently.

    We no longer constantly try
    to correct the body.

    We no longer try
    to produce beautiful posture.

    We no longer try
    to manufacture elegance.

    The body walks.

    It breathes.

    It responds naturally
    to movement and gravity.

    And what was once
    a succession of elements
    to be controlled becomes
    a single movement.

    This is perhaps
    one of the most subtle differences
    between learning a technique
    and truly embodying it.

    Learning sometimes requires
    breaking things down.

    Embodiment means
    that what has been learned
    no longer needs to be
    constantly monitored.

    Elegance is not
    born from control.

    It appears when the structure
    is so deeply integrated
    that the body no longer needs
    to think about it.

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  • The Beauty of Stillness in Motion

    The Beauty of Stillness in Motion

    Can you see the difference
    between the two examples
    in the Instagram video below?

    Your arms are part of your silhouette.

    Of course, from a functional
    point of view, moving your arms
    helps the body maintain balance
    while walking.

    This is a fact.

    But there is another
    fact we must not forget.

    Your arms are also one of
    the elements that shape your
    elegance.

    The way you move them
    can deepen your presence
    or diminish it.

    Many people do not consider
    the movement of the arms
    to be an essential part of walking.

    And precisely because of this,
    the arms are often left
    unconscious, swinging freely
    back and forth.

    Yet presence resides in a
    refined quality of stillness
    within movement.

    Sometimes, this requires
    a certain degree of control.

    Within that control lies
    the beauty of the straight line.

    And the axis that emerges
    from within is born from
    this beauty of the straight line.

    This is the foundation of presence.

    Even a single movement
    can fundamentally transform
    the impression created
    by the way you walk.

    Watch the video below
    and observe the difference
    for yourself.

    Walking is an art.

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  • Why Slow Movement Matters in High-Heel Sessions

    Why Slow Movement Matters in High-Heel Sessions

    There is something
    I consider essential
    in my high-heel session:
    moving slowly.

    Whether we are stretching,
    exercising, or walking in high heels,
    the movements are performed
    at a deliberately slow pace.

    This is not for elegance or beauty.

    When the body moves with
    momentum, it becomes difficult
    to engage and develop the right
    muscles correctly.

    Walking slowly may look easy.

    In reality,
    the opposite is true.

    Walking slowly
    and exercising slowly
    require sufficient muscular
    control.

    In that sense,
    moving slowly is a technique
    in itself.

    One of my clients,
    a pianist, once told me something
    that stayed with me.

    Her former piano teacher
    had taught her the same principle:

    if you cannot play a piece
    at a very slow tempo,
    you will not be able to control
    the sound when you play it quickly.

    This logic does not belong
    only to the world of music
    or to the world of high heels.

    It is universal.

    Those experiencing an
    ASAMI-PARIS session for
    the first time are often surprised
    by how slowly we work.

    The reason is simple:
    moving slowly is difficult.

    But through consistent practice,
    the appropriate muscles gradually
    develop without forcing the body.

    The stretching and exercises
    required for walking in high heels
    do not require a gym.

    With online lessons,
    they can be practised at home.

    And walking itself
    is already part of everyday life.

    Even after the lesson ends,
    the work can continue
    simply by bringing awareness
    to the way you move throughout
    your day.

    The purpose of moving slowly
    is not to create elegance.

    The purpose is to respect
    the structure and mechanics of
    the body and to develop
    the muscular control that allows
    it to function correctly.

    Yet something else begins to
    happen as a natural consequence.

    Elegance emerges.

    The breath becomes deeper.

    Presence becomes stronger.

    These are secondary effects.

    They do not need to be
    created or pursued.

    They arise naturally
    when the body begins to work
    with greater precision.

    And perhaps this is something
    worth remembering:

    the way we bring ourselves
    back into alignment is deeply
    connected to the speed at
    which we move through
    everyday life.


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  • What Does “Already Within” Really Mean?

    What Does “Already Within” Really Mean?

    “Already within” does not mean
    convincing yourself that you already
    have what you desire.

    It begins when the security,
    freedom, worth, and sense of being
    that you once placed in the outside
    world are reclaimed within yourself.

    At that point,
    the structure that required you
    to receive them from outside
    begins to dissolve.

    “Already within” does not mean
    that if you create abundance within
    yourself, money will appear
    in the outside world.

    Rather, when the part
    of you that was trying to be
    fulfilled by the outside world
    begins to fade, you can finally
    see what you had been asking
    the outside world to give you.

    You were asking money
    for security.

    You were asking work
    to give you a sense of worth.

    You were asking others
    for love.

    You were asking success
    to prove your existence.

    You were asking travel
    to give you freedom.

    As each of these is reclaimed
    from the outside world,
    the world outside you ceases
    to be a means of completing
    yourself.

    Only then
    does money become simply
    money, work become
    simply work, people become
    simply people, and
    travel become simply travel.

    This is an immense freedom.

    It does not deny
    the possibility of abundance
    appearing in the outside
    world.

    But neither does it turn
    that abundance into proof
    of what exists within you.

    And then, for the first time,
    we move beyond the linear
    idea that

    “because there is abundance
    within, there will be abundance
    outside.”

    The inner and the outer are
    no longer experienced
    as two separate realities.

    They begin to move
    as one movement of life.

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  • Beauty Never Needs to Prove Itself

    Beauty Never Needs to Prove Itself

    Elegance is not defined
    by how extraordinary
    the things you wear may be.

    Presence is not created
    by demonstrating
    how exceptional you are.

    True beauty begins to emerge
    the moment you no longer
    feel the need to prove yourself.

    Beyond comparison
    with others.

    Beyond comparison
    between your past and
    your future.

    Beyond thoughts.

    Beyond emotions.

    What remains is presence.

    Presence has a quiet strength
    that naturally draws people in.

    It requires no explanation.
    You are simply drawn to it.
    That is life itself.

    This is what I share with
    people around the world through
    the philosophy of high heels.

    It is never loud.
    It is quiet.

    And yet,
    it is profoundly powerful.

    Through their own bodies.
    Through their own senses.
    Through their own lives.

    My clients rediscover the vitality
    that has always existed within them.

    I believe many people long
    for an unshakable axis.

    They search for it
    outside themselves.

    But it will never be found there.

    Because
    it has always existed
    within.

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  • Beyond Gender

    Beyond Gender

    For many years,
    I believed my work would
    naturally belong to women.

    After all, high heels
    have long been
    associated with femininity.

    Yet over the years,
    I have received inquiries
    from men who wished
    to study my method.

    Today, a simple
    conversation made
    me reflect once again.

    Someone I have known
    for nearly ten years
    mentioned his husband.

    Until that moment,
    I had never wondered
    about his personal life.

    What had always remained
    in my mind instead
    was the quiet harmony
    between two seemingly
    opposite qualities:

    A strong sense of his own
    identity, and at the same
    time, a remarkable
    gentleness toward others.

    That balance
    had always felt
    far more meaningful.

    Perhaps
    that is precisely the point.

    The body
    has no gender.

    Muscles know
    no gender.

    Balance knows
    no gender.

    Gravity knows
    no gender.

    Alignment knows
    no gender.

    The body simply responds
    to how it is used.

    This is precisely
    why high heels
    are so extraordinary.

    High heels
    do not create elegance.

    They reveal truth.

    Every instability.

    Every unnecessary tension.

    Every imbalance becomes
    visible.

    Nothing can pretend.

    Nothing can hide.

    When the body
    moves in harmony,
    high heels cease to be
    an obstacle.

    They become an
    extension of the body.

    That is why walking in
    high heels is not merely
    about fashion.

    It is one of the most honest
    conversations you can have
    with your own body.

    My work is not about
    becoming more feminine.
    Nor is it about becoming
    more masculine.

    It is about returning
    to your natural alignment.

    The philosophy of
    ASAMI-PARIS
    belongs
    to no gender,
    no nationality,
    no culture,
    no age,
    no profession,
    and no social status.

    The body recognizes
    none of these labels.

    It responds
    only to harmony.

    Beyond those labels lies
    the philosophy of high heels.

    When body, movement,
    and gravity become one,
    true elegance appears naturally.

    That is the essence
    of ASAMI-PARIS.

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