Month: June 2026

  • Why I Live with High Heels

    Why I Live with High Heels

    The reason I live with
    high heels has evolved in
    proportion to the evolution of
    my consciousness.

    At different moments in my life,
    the reasons have been different.

    At times, it was for beauty.
    At times, it was to maintain
    my physique.

    At other times, it was to care
    for my body during pregnancy
    and after childbirth,
    or simply to live with elegance.

    Today, the reason I live with
    high heels is different.

    It is to return to my axis.

    Or perhaps a more accurate
    expression would be:
    to remember it, again and again.

    The axis of the mind and
    the axis of the body
    are perfectly connected.

    One of the greatest benefits of
    having an axis is that the
    moment we drift away from it,
    we immediately notice.

    Without an axis,
    the most dangerous thing is not
    the drift itself, but the inability
    to recognize it.

    No one remains perfectly
    aligned forever.

    Neither mentally nor physically.

    What truly matters
    is how quickly
    we are able to return.

    The longer we remain
    in misalignment,
    the more familiar it becomes.

    Over time, both the body and
    the mind begin to mistake
    that position for the correct one.

    This is often the first step
    toward physical discomfort.

    Fatigue.
    Pain.
    A sense of unease.

    The same is true of the mind.

    For this reason,
    living with high heels
    has become, for me,
    less about beauty and more
    about returning to my axis.

    It is also a way
    of remaining humble
    before the body.

    Not humble in the sense
    of diminishing oneself,
    but humble enough to
    observe oneself with clarity,
    objectivity, and honesty.

    Perhaps that is what true distance
    from oneself means.

    There are as many reasons
    to make high heels a companion
    in life as there are people.

    Because living with high heels
    has a unique way of guiding
    each person toward what
    they most need at a particular
    moment in their life.

    The philosophy of high heels
    is an immutable structure.


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